"If your partner is consenting, you will see them meeting you halfway on stuff, responding to your touch, touching you back, making approving noises, positioning their body helpfully, making occasional eye contact, smiling, giggling, kissing you, smelling your skin.

If your partner pulls away, flinches, draws back, goes still, goes limp, freezes, is silent, looks unhappy, starts holding their breath, goes from meeting you halfway to merely allowing your touch: stop and check in with words. Maybe they’re ticklish? Maybe they want to stop."


stages of dog growth 

  • baby puppy (wiggly tube stage)
  • puppy (running tube stage)
  • puppy: teen edition (loose gangly fur child)
  • puppy: adult edition (still a child but grew into thier paws)
  • puppy: sage 

So this happened….
→ http://stfusexists.tumblr.com/post/70638149981/sourcedumal-note-a-bear






dear caretakers of children: stop telling kids “I don’t care who started it!”. you’re teaching children to ignore unequal power balances. that leads to legitimate belief in things like…

"Sometimes people try to destroy you, precisely because they recognize your power — not because they don’t see it, but because they see it and they don’t want it to exist."

bell hooks (via blackrebelsoul)

Things to remind oneself while reading messages from internet trolls.

(via microaggressions)




i just want to be called cute and beautiful like 23/7 

why not 24

snack breaks 

→ potential date ideas i came up with while really stoned??


  1. make chocolate cake from scratch and watch a bunch of who’s line is it anyway “scenes from a hat”
  2. share a joint and take a long walk on a cool evening that’s brisk enough to require a jacket but not so much as to require a coat
  3. have an adventure time marathon and continuously…

These all sound amazing…